The church next door is not your competition.
So stop comparing your church to theirs. Stop measuring your success by someone else’s standard. Stop trying to copy what they’re doing so you can be as “successful” as they are.
And for God’s sake (I mean that), stop even thinking in terms of “competition.” You’re not there to compete with anyone. You are there to fulfill your God-given mission and vision, which has nothing to do with what any other church is doing.
Stop competing, stop comparing, stop copying. Do what God is uniquely calling your church to do.